
We are back from two weeks of vacation, and it could not have gone better! We feel refreshed, renewed, and (at least on my part) better than I have felt in a long time. Thanks to everyone who prayed for us and this trip—it was everything that we needed it to be, and even more.
I'll try to keep this concise (
ETA: I think I failed at that. Oh well, you are warned!), but I want to share all the highlights of our two weeks off! Part One was our stay at
Faith's Lodge. Faith's Lodge is a nonprofit retreat center for families and couples who have lost a child, or are dealing with the terminal illness of a child. It allows couples time to relax, process, and remember and honor their child(ren).
The lodge itself was gorgeous! 12,000 square feet, 4 floors. It includes a large commercial kitchen, eating area, wraparound porch, library, craft room, "Eagle's Nest" with beautiful views, and plenty of cozy areas to sit and read or talk. The lodge is in the north woods of Wisconsin, surrounded by tall pine trees. It was also nice and quiet!


our suite
While there we met 5 other couples who have lost babies. No two stories were alike, but for the first time we experienced a community of others who have truly "been there." It took a little time for everyone to warm up, but we left with new friends and the feeling that we'd known some of the couples for years, rather than days.
There were a few activities planned each day, but we were free to do as much or as little as we chose.
We created a bird house and a mosaic stone to add to the boys' garden.

We hiked the Inspiration Path.

one of the quotes posted along Inspiration Path
We canoed on the pond. We spent lots of time reading and reflecting.
There is a bridge at the lodge that is surrounded by small, heart-shaped stones. Each of the stones has been decorated and placed in memory of a child. It was actually pretty overwhelming—like stars in the sky, more and more stones stood out to us the longer we looked. We decorated a stone and placed it under a tree to honor our sons. It was a very meaningful tribute to them.



Faith's Lodge was so good in so many ways. It was also difficult in some ways. Some parts were both good
and hard. It was a time of sharing, processing, and healing. We are so very thankful that a place like this exists, and that we had the opportunity to visit.